How men become women. Why do men become women
We offer 5 tips from a real lady on how to become a woman! Save yourself.
Primary and secondary sexual characteristics are not enough to be considered a true woman.
And, if happy parents are told in the maternity hospital: “Congratulations, you have a girl”, this does not mean at all that this very girl will grow up to be a real lady who will be admired by men and envied by women.
She may well turn into something embittered by the whole world, with a shapeless body, unwashed hair and dirty nails.
There are plenty of such ladies, sorry, in every city, they carry bags of groceries, cook borscht, watch: “Don’t be born beautiful” and other crap, they hate a pot-bellied husband who does not get off the couch and yell at their own children.
After 25 years of marriage, Natalya's husband looks at her with loving eyes (it's worth saying that not only he is).
At 45, she attracts much more male gazes than young charmers in miniskirts, and in order to finish off true housewives with a ladle attached to her hand, I’ll say that she cooks the most tender meat in the world and delicious cakes.
Her ideal, at first glance, life is the result of enormous work and constant self-development.
She replaces lying on the couch with a gym, a soap opera with a world classic, sticking into the TV with going to the theater or an exhibition, a greasy bathrobe with a cute tracksuit, and there are no stupid paperback novels in her library at all!
How did I become a woman?
Natalia says that she was born in a small town in the Cherkasy region.All her mother's friends, and her parent herself, looked the same: tired, unloved, poorly educated, tortured by life.
Even joint celebrations were somehow faceless: at first, the ladies cooked, fried, baked until their knees trembled, then complained about bad husbands and naughty children, while these same husbands played dominoes in one room, and the children raged in another, and then washed - cleaned.
No hobbies, no interests, and self-care for these ladies was limited to the standard “chemistry” on their heads once every six months.
“A woman can make a man softer, she can make him weaker, and she can decide for herself what to do with him.
That's what scares her!"
Sigmund Freud, psychoanalyst
At the age of 12, Natalya decided that she would not be the same.
She tried to understand how to become a woman, unlike his mother and her friends.
She entered Kyiv University, at the age of 19 she met her husband.
She graduated from university with a two-year-old child in her arms.
But neither Yegorka nor Marinka, who appeared after 5 years, prevented Natalya from building a career, participating in the cultural life of the capital and, at the same time, remaining an ideal wife and mother.
At first it was hard, but then everything became a habit, and Natalya realized that she was not mistaken in choosing such a feminine path.
I asked Natalya to give my readers, and myself, a few tips that will help you become a woman who will be admired by everyone around.My friend turned out to be not greedy and shared five components of her successful life.
You must take care of family comfort.
“My husband and I have always had a rule: cooks, cleans, does homework with children, the one who is currently free.
But I never forgot that I was a mother and a wife, so on weekends I always cooked something delicious, baked.
And all Sundays, we had a family day: we went to the forest, or to the park, or to the theater, or visited grandparents, in general, have fun on this day with the whole family.
You must be interesting.
“Marriage is not a reason to abandon theaters, concerts, museums, to become dumb and not interested in anything but new recipes, ways to treat a cold in children and whether José Carmelita will fall in love.
I still visit premieres, presentations, exhibitions, follow the world of art. We have something to talk about with my husband, except for children and repairs.
“First of all, it is about appearance.
Self-care should become a habit. Even at home you can't turn into a monster. This does not mean that you need to put on tons of makeup and wear a miniskirt in the morning.
Create your own unique style in clothes, choose a hairstyle and makeup that suits you, regularly visit manicure and pedicure masters, do not ignore facial care and do not let dozens of extra pounds settle on your body.
You must be good.
“Bitchiness is a fashionable thing, of course, now, but I am convinced that warmth should come from a woman.
She should be compassionate, kind, caring.
I know how to stand up for myself, but I do it only when I am forced, which, by the way, is rare. And so - I allow my husband to act as a defender, to do men's work, to solve problems.
I never tried to take his pants and become the head of the family."
You must become a successful employee.
“My husband has always been able to support the family himself, but I did not imagine myself in the role of a housewife.
Even if there is no material need, you need to work for your pleasure and self-development.
In order not to ask the spouse for money for lipstick, in order to be able to pick up the banner if the spouse can no longer support us.
By the way, it stimulates husbands to financial success a working woman... Well, you can't let them earn more!
Very informative speech by Oleg Torsunov about
where to start to become a real and happy woman!
Grab a pen and notepad and write it down! 😉
Become a woman not so difficult, although it is quite a long way.
Form your principles and follow them, despite the bad opinion of unfortunate aunts in dressing gowns: "We need to live like we do."
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The news that Kim Kardashian's stepfather, 65-year-old Bruce Jenner, has changed sex recently, to put it mildly, surprised the world. In a week, his - or rather, already her (Jenner's new name is Caitlyn) - Twitter (@Caitlyn_Jenner) has collected almost three million subscribers. “I am a woman in every way,” declared former Olympic decathlon champion Bruce Jenner in an interview with Vanity Fair. Photographing the newly-made woman was done by Anna Leibovitz. The resulting image on the cover of the magazine is the embodiment of Hollywood glamor of the 1950s: the right make up, white satin bodysuit, seductive forms (Jenner was implanted with breasts of 4 sizes). The public was divided into two camps: the tolerant part welcomed Jenner's decision, the more conservative part clutched its head in horror.
People who felt a discrepancy between their biological sex and the so-called gender identity, however, have always existed: they are mentioned in Ancient Egypt(15th century BC). Large-scale studies of this phenomenon have not been conducted. Among the currently relevant hypotheses about the causes: a combination of hormonal factors in the phase of prenatal development, genetics and the influence of the social environment in early childhood. Be that as it may, it is precisely today that such people (not to be confused with transvestites - those who are turned on by dressing in clothes of the opposite sex, but nothing more) come out of the underground and are rapidly mastering the cultural and socio-political space. Examples - a lot. The famous actress and trans model Carla Antonelli, a former man, has been sitting in the Spanish regional parliament for several years. In the US, Pennsylvania's chief medical officer was recently appointed a transgender woman; the new personnel manager in the Obama administration was also a former male.
In the fashion industry, people with unclear gender identity have become trendsetters. The tone was set a few years ago by 23-year-old model of Serbo-Croatian origin Andrea (former Andrey) Pejic. The owner of an angelic androgynous appearance back in adolescence conquered the catwalks, becoming one of the favorite models of Jean-Paul Gaultier and Marc Jacobs. Then she was with a male passport - having placed Pejic on the cover a couple of years ago, New York Magazine called him The Prettiest Boy in the World(“the prettiest boy in the world”). Last year, the mannequin grew breasts - Andrei underwent a sex change operation. He hasn't had any contracts since then.
Transgender aesthetics and collections with a predominance of sexless, dimensionless, but at the same time quite provocative things are now in the forefront of fashion. Long-haired models, whose gender is difficult to determine, have strutted at the recent shows of Raf Simons, Gucci, Heider Ackermann, Dries Van Noten. The face of the Redken advertising campaign was the muse of Riccardo Tisci (Givenchy) Lea T., a beautiful model of Brazilian-Italian origin, in the past Leandro Cerezo (it was she who kissed Kate Moss on the cover of an androgynous fashion issue of Love magazine a couple of years ago). Last year, fashion photography guru Bruce Weber shot a dramatic black and white campaign for Barneys featuring 17 transgender models.
It is possible that the concept of agender or genderless ("asexual") will eventually become the slogan of the current fashion decade. Brad Pitt and Jolie appeared at the BAFTA AWARDS 2014 in identical Saint Laurent tuxedos. Cara Delevingne, Kendall Jenner and even the feminine Irina Shayk periodically appear in male image. The latter appeared on the catwalk in Paris in a rough jumpsuit - at the show of the Givenchy men's collection spring-summer 2016. Selfridges department store in London opened a whole department called #Agender, and luxury online boutique Thecorner.com began selling the No Gender line. Rumor has it that the first transsexual will soon appear among the Victoria's Secret Angels. The 28-year-old American model, TV presenter and burlesque star Carmen Carrera has the most chances.
Caitlyn Jenner pretended to be a man all her life, starting at the age of seven, when she first borrowed outfits from her mother from her mother's wardrobe. The fact that in 1976 Bruce Jenner won gold in the decathlon at the Montreal Olympics and then collected more medals did not reduce his internal conflict. At some point, he even began to take female hormones, but after meeting Kris Kardashian and quickly marrying her, he stopped. “Bruce... was always forced to lie. He lived with it: every day he hid something, from morning to evening. Caitlin has no secrets, I'm free,” admits Caitlin. The former athlete has already undergone hormone replacement therapy and painful facial plastic surgery to acquire a neat Greek profile. Whether Jenner will undergo a full gender reassignment surgery, she has not yet decided. We, however, will soon find out about this - from the Bruce-Caitlin reality show called I Am Cait. Sometimes it is enough for a transgender person to make a “social transition”, when a person asks friends and relatives to call him not Kolya, but Vika, for example. Or vice versa. Others drink hormones and go under the surgeon's knife. It takes years, sometimes a lifetime. Some then completely change their social circle, even the city and country, in order to keep the secret and avoid condemnation. “That's me. Stuck - I hate that word - a girl stuck in a boy's body. ...My brain is much more feminine than masculine. It’s hard for people to understand, but that’s my soul,” Jenner complains. However, the vicissitudes of his gender transition are more than offset by millions in profits - primarily from a new reality show. As it turns out, in an era of super-publicity and the pursuit of sensations, transsexuality is also a hot commodity.
Transgender people and the transphobia that accompanies this phenomenon have recently been compared to the gay movement that gained momentum in the 1970s and 80s. In tolerant California, three years ago, they passed a law that schoolchildren can choose which toilet to go to - M or F - in accordance with the gender to which they identify themselves. And if some teacher with conservative manners gets in the way, the parents go to court. This is what the family of six-year-old Koya Mathis did when the kid refused to go to the urinal, and the school principal literally closed his access to the ladies' room with her breasts. The Commission on Civil Rights eventually recognized the right of a young transgender to write with girls. The daughter of Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt is also diagnosed with a “gender identity disorder” behind her back - the blond Shilo looks like a Disney princess, but her mother does not mind that the girl does not wear ruffles, loves stretched sweatshirts and skillfully scores goals. It's funny that at the Kids Choice Awards, Shiloh became friends with the pampered Suri Cruise, a nine-year-old fashionista, and the American tabloids immediately squealed that in ten years we might see a new non-standard couple. In general, absolute bodily sincerity for many is now becoming a new way of self-affirmation. At the end of summer, the Internet and social networks blew up the Self-Evident Project, a photo project involving 10,000 Americans, including many celebrities who are convinced that the sexual spectrum is too wide to be labeled and that the very concept of sex is an outdated template. One of the stars of this project is 16-year-old Lily-Rose Depp, the daughter of Depp and Paradis, who recently became the face of Chanel.
In the world, one of the first gender reassignment operations was carried out in 1952 - the American military became a woman. In our country, this was done a little later: in 1970, the Riga surgeon Viktor Kalnberzs was the first in the USSR to deceive nature and return the spectacular 30-year-old brunette Inna (the last name is still kept secret) to her psychological body. She left the doctor's office as Innokenty - with the reproductive system of a man - and lived like that until a ripe old age. The story of this scandalous operation was declassified only last year, when Kalnberzs published his memoirs.
According to psychologists, as early as the age of five, with the help of tests, you can find out how a child determines his gender role. Many Western doctors have recently called for considering transgenderness not as a mental illness, but as a natural feature. “Only parents can either give a child the happiness of becoming who they think they are, or break them by forcing them to play with the wrong toys,” says Dr. Jody Herman of The Williams Institute, an independent research organization in the field of gender identity. As proof, she cites chilling statistics: more than 40% of transgender people have tried to commit suicide. However, in Russia the topic is officially hushed up. The main Russian trans-activist, Yana Kirei-Sitnikova (formerly Gleb), did not get a new “female” certificate from the passport office and left Russia altogether. Now he lives with his beloved in Strasbourg, where he receives a PhD in molecular informatics. From there, she maintains a blog in which she comments on the latest laws in the field of transgender law, and also meets with UN representatives on behalf of all transgender people in the former post-Soviet space. Like the members of the Seff-Evident Project, she is convinced that the notion of gender is long overdue. This is what he fights for.
But perhaps soon transgender people will not shock anyone. We live in an era of narcissistic individualism where self-expression has become the new religion. Plus, the world is somehow moving towards parity, where gender boundaries are indeed gradually being erased, and any stereotypes, taboos and restrictions cease to play a defining role. There is an opinion that female emancipation became the catalyst in this process. And it was she who launched an unprecedented wave of tolerance in the world and opened up so many options for us that both men and women ... got a little confused. Many have lost their way, lost their bearings and, perhaps, their sense of proportion. And some even lost themselves. But maybe everything happens exactly the opposite? We are looking for ourselves, trying to understand and realize our true identity and life needs. Each one in its own way.
A New Twist: A Transgender Story
Julia and Roman (names have been changed) are, at first glance, an ordinary family that is raising a young son. The only difference is that Roman used to be... a woman. Yulia Sonina wrote down their unusual story.
Roman, web designer, 30 years old
Change sex - do not get a tattoo. There is no such thing as: “Oh, cool, I’ll go and do it!” Transsexualism is a medical diagnosis. Some people are born with a heart defect, and some are born with gender dysphoria. This is when a person is uncomfortable in his body. I don't even remember when it all started. In early childhood, you don’t think about what gender you are. But even then it was obvious that my sister is a super girl, and I got the roles of boys in all the games. That's how it worked out. The first conscious discomfort I felt in the fifth grade. For example, when you had to put on a skirt, in the locker room, in the pool. It's not that I have any complaints about my body. But the very fact that you have to be a girl—thinking a certain way, moving in a certain way, wanting something girly—was unpleasant to me. I wanted to abstract from physiology and everything connected with it. I was good at it. I studied well. Graduated from school with a gold medal. I read a lot. I was friends with guys who, unlike me, went to discos, kissed girls, drank beer and smoked behind the school.
I remember when my sister said, "Let's go buy you a prom skirt," I felt a terrible internal dissonance. We went and bought it, but I never put it on. As a girl, I wasn't very pretty at all. The chest is small. The figure is awkward. Short haircut. However, the way I look did not bother me much. My sister and I became students, got carried away with music, started going to concerts. And then, among the musicians, they accidentally discovered one about whom it was completely incomprehensible - this is a woman or a man. He/she grew a beard and said all sorts of things. It turned out that the singer just had problems with hormones. But she introduced me to real shemales. The more I learned about gender reassignment, the more I realized that this is exactly what I need. For my sister, at that time the person closest to me, it was obvious that something was wrong with me. At some point, I asked her to talk to my mother. She, and then other relatives, understood everything correctly. They began to call me "Roman", as my friends had been calling me for a long time. Only one person said, “Sorry. I can't understand it." No so no.
For a person who wants to change gender, there are several ways. Someone asks familiar transsexuals to get hormones and begins to inject themselves at home. His voice is gradually breaking down, his mustache is starting to grow. He becomes like a guy, but lives with women's documents and breasts. But the man in women's dress most often looks bad and causes much more hostility than a woman dressed as a man. I chose the official way. I found a psychiatric clinical expert commission - in St. Petersburg. It was then headed by an outstanding psychiatrist, one of the few people who are engaged in gender theory in our country. The man is meticulous, but correct, not a sadist. That's how it should be. Many trans people are insecure people. Therefore, a whole bunch of tests for mental health, adequacy, which have to be passed several times, have been invented. Main question, which you are asked, can be conditionally formulated as follows: “What will we do if you suddenly decide tomorrow that you are a stool?” There are precedents when people at some point wanted to return everything back. Give a trial period. Like newlyweds before the wedding. I received a certificate that gave me the right to hormone therapy, sex reassignment surgery and change of documents in a year. I experienced euphoria - greater than later, when I was already injecting hormones.
I have been on hormones for five years now (they will have to be injected all my life) and have been shaving for quite some time. So far, he has done only one operation - he removed the breast. The next step is the removal of the internal female organs, and then phalloplasty. When it comes to sex drive, like my wife, I don't get hung up on what gender partner is. Before the transition, I briefly dated a guy. And then I met Julia. She is smart, beautiful, we talked with her at night and love the same thing: movies, books, music. And each other. What else is needed for happiness?
Julia, producer, 29 years old
I have always been family-oriented and, with all my tolerance (I had a bisexual experience), I still represented a man next to me. Roman, when we met, I perceived it that way. Although on paper he was still a woman then. I knew from the very beginning that he was going to change sex. And it didn't shock me. If you see a person as a whole and you are interested in him, appearance and gender are not important. After several years of friendship, we began to live together. When Roman proposed to me, I fell into a borderline state for three months, because I was not sure: does he really want to marry me or realize the possibilities of a new passport? Plus, I wanted kids. There were no disagreements. We signed and began to find out what options there might be in this regard. The option that we found gives partners of the same sex the maximum degree of kinship. The mechanism is this. Roman stopped taking hormones for six months. They took an egg from him, did IVF and transferred it to me at the embryo stage, as if I were a surrogate mother. Our baby is now six months old. Genetically, he is completely the son of his father - that is, Roman. The resemblance is obvious, although we were looking for a donor who looked like me. We want more children in the future. After all, on the advice of a reproductive specialist, we fertilized and froze several eggs at once. So it gets even easier.
Gennady and Klava got married right after school. Six months later, Gena was drafted into the army, and Klava remained to wait for him. After serving, Gennady could not find a suitable job. In the absence of her husband, Klava lived on small earnings, took up trade, a shuttle. Then, with the help of her father, she created her own company. She invited Gennady to work for her, but he refused to sell "women's rags".
Having toiled for a year, Gena found on the Internet an advertisement for the hiring of "soldiers of fortune". This is what he was taught in the army. It was necessary to serve in some hot country on the side of either the rebels, or the government, who will sort them out. Most importantly, they paid well. During the year of the war, he earned more than Klava during the same time. Now Gennady felt like the breadwinner of the family. The wife of the money sent to her by Gennady invested in the development of her business. A year later, Gena came on vacation to visit his wife. Only two weeks of happiness, then another year of war.
Gennady returned a month later. Rather, it was delivered by a Red Cross plane. The grenade exploded at his very feet, but only one of the fragments touched Gennady. One, but how. A splinter hit in the groin and cut off the male pride of a soldier of fortune who became a loser. The local doctor could not provide timely qualified assistance.
No treatment could bring satisfactory results. Having gone through the hospitals, Gennady returned home. If Klava did not expect a child conceived on a short vacation, he would have laid hands on himself. At least that's what Gennady told his wife. He would have done it otherwise, the man himself did not know. Nevertheless, constant depression did not leave him. He sat all day in front of the TV and engaged in self-pity. And the wife at that time was engaged in the affairs of her company, despite her condition, since the husband refused to help her, referring to his incapacity.
Only the birth of a daughter gave Gennady strength. He looked back at the aimless months. Gratitude to his wife for her patience prompted him to take a decisive step - he agreed to help Klava. Giving himself entirely to work, Gennady forgot about his inferiority for a while. But this did not last long, he no longer felt like a man and did not see the meaning of his life.
Klava found a way out. She taught Gennady to receive and give pleasure even in his condition.
You and I are like two women, - Gennady grinned bitterly, making love to his wife with the help of a prosthesis from a sex shop.
Can you get me now? - once joked a man.
You are a fool, but you are not being treated, - Klava answered, but an idea arose in her head that required rethinking.
Having come to a definite decision, she slowly began to realize her idea of how to help her husband.
Irishka, as her daughter was named, is one year old. Gennady really liked to deal with his daughter, even more than Klava, who spent almost all her time on the affairs of the company.
In the evening, Gennady once again joked at his own expense.
Enough, - Klava exploded.
Smiling slyly, she took out a package of exquisite lingerie from the closet.
Try on.
What else, - the man was indignant.
You've been asking for this for so long that I decided to give in and help you. Now don't hesitate.
Ah well? - Gennady did what his wife ordered.
And I like you, - Klava hugged her husband and kissed him. - You're so sexy. Shall we continue?
Let's continue, - Gennady agreed, hoping that this proposal would be followed by the usual caresses. Instead, Klava led him to the wardrobe.
Choose, it's all yours, - in the department where Gennady's clothes were supposed to be, he found only women's clothes.
He stared at his wife in disbelief. She stroked his cheek and kissed him.
Bolder. They don't bite.
But it's...
Now these are your clothes. You yourself constantly said that you became a woman. Now confirm it. I will help you.
Grandma moved. Give me back my clothes.
Never. Now you and I are two women and it's time for us to make love. How do you look at it?
Persuaded.
Gennady hoped in the morning to convince his wife to change her mind, but Klava did not stop there. She continued her nightly games while wearing her husband's prosthesis. But this did not strike the man, but what bliss he could experience from her caresses, from what she did with his chest.
Now I am your woman, but you are also my woman, - Klava whispered. - I must confess, I switched your medications. You have been taking not male, but female hormones for three months now. Do you like it?
Yes, more please. I love you, - Gennady moaned.
In the morning, the man put on his new clothes without much argument. Klava helped him do his make-up, laughing merrily pierced his ears and put earrings in there.
What is your favorite female name?
Not good. Klava is me. What shall we call you? Gennady is somehow strange for a woman. Don't you think?
Do you seriously want to make me a woman?
I do everything seriously. Haven't you realized this yet?
Then I will be Light.
Hmm why?
Why not?
Sveta so Sveta, - Klava agreed.
Despite everything, Gennady continued to think that Klava was playing a funny joke with him.
The man stayed at home for two weeks. Klava was engaged in work, and Gennady nursed his daughter and did household chores. All this time he regularly learned to portray a woman. In night games, he tried to beg his wife to stop using him as a woman, but she flatly refused.
On Sunday, my father-in-law and mother-in-law came to visit. Klava warned them in advance about what she had done to her husband.
Well, Gennady, you are completely mad, - the father-in-law made a flat compliment.
Good deeds, Stepan Petrovich. Your daughter has completely lost her mind, she turned her own husband into a woman.
What suits you.
Stepan Petrovich.
Kidding. I'll try to talk to Klava, but you know her. What you decide - you can not convince.
Mother-in-law, on the contrary, fully supported her daughter.
After two weeks, Gennady tried to convince Klava that it was time to stop the fun. He was frightened that the chest, which had become sensitive, imperceptibly, but steadily increased in volume.
Instead of agreeing with her husband, Klava came up with a new fun. Leaving Ira in the care of her mother, Klava pulled Gennady out of the house for the first time in two weeks. Naturally, like Svetlana.
She brought her husband to some restaurant. Along the way, she instructed Gennady how to behave. It turned out that Klava made an appointment there with some Vladimir, who liked Svetlana and he agreed to provide her with some help. Upon learning of this, Gennady wanted to jump out of the car.
You'll break, you fool, - barked Klava. - Nothing bad will happen to you. Just some new fun that you should enjoy. You need experience with a man.
Robertina underwent sex reassignment surgery. Now he's holed up at home. With her - a loved one, "my boxer," as she calls him. Robertina is sad and calm: "I sacrificed my penis to a society that will never get tired of spying on its neighbor through a hole in the fence. Until the era of mercy has come," witch hunting "will long remain the favorite profession of many."
ON PASSPORT he is Robert. Friends call him evasively - Robertino. About himself, he says: "I fell in love ..."
"QUIET! OPERATION IN PROGRESS!"
They laid me on the operating table, bared my lower abdomen and hung up gauze, hiding from my eyes what all my life, all 25 years, seemed to me a disgusting stupid appendage. But now I felt sorry for my warm living flesh.
My hand itself reaches through the gauze to touch the last time to my "manhood". Sorry and goodbye! My mother, a surgeon, signed the direction for the operation for me last Monday, bowing her head over
blank. I did not see her eyes, they were hidden by a low pulled doctor's cap. Suddenly, something dripped onto the sheet of paper and blurred into a wet spot, again and again. And I suddenly realized - these are tears. My "iron" mom was crying! "All right," she said in a trembling voice. And she looked at me with desperate hope.
"WE SHOULD TAKE THE KNIFE IN HANDS"
WHEN I was a child, the whole world seemed to me a huge operating room, relentlessly experimenting on people.
One day I overheard a conversation. A girl was crying in the staff room, I took her at first for a guy. "Cut off my chest!" she begged my mother. "That's stupid," I thought, "what a blessing it is to have such a lush, attractive chest." But for some reason, my mother nodded sympathetically to her: "Yes, you need to pick up a knife!" Why?
And in the 10th grade, I fell in love. Into our new
English teacher, did a thousand and one cute stupid things in the name of his love. And in the end what happened happened. I thought I seduced her. And everyone around believed that she had seduced me. Can a person love a person for a long time in an atmosphere of vile, sticky curiosity of others? She left without saying goodbye. I tried to kill myself. But the hell with two - try to die yourself in the doctor's house!
CONFUSED WITH A MANNEQUIN
ONCE a friend rushed to me, he worked in the dressing room of the local theater: "Come backstage with me, the fashion theater came to us. The girls are simply amazing - their legs grow right from under the molars!"
I came, I stand on the sidelines. Fuss, bustle. Some kind of gray-haired hairy runs past, suddenly slows down, slaps my ass and yells: "Why are you up here?! It's quick to change clothes!" While I was thinking about what to answer him, they already jumped up to me, tore off my clothes and put on a satin dress. The gray-haired one commands: "Tighten her ass! That's it! Let's go!" - and pushes me onto a narrow long podium. I walk and feel how everyone around me is staring at my
legs. Some fat cretin raised theater glasses to his eyes. I grinned and put my hand on my hip. The hall almost groaned.
The next day, our entire southern sunny city knew that I was "the same man who is a woman." What are theatrical binoculars! It seemed to me that passers-by were armed with microscopes - they looked at me so frankly and intently. I'm walking down the street. The droop-ass bastard, on whose mustache the beer foam has not dried yet, is staring at me.
and yells at the top of his lungs: "Well, not a man!" I turn into an alley. Two chubby women on crooked legs point their fingers at my back and giggle: "That's ugly! Horror!" Good townspeople turned me into a hunted animal in one day. I ran through the city, choking with tears.
"WAS ONLY A HOLE"
MOM came to me in the morning. “You can’t imagine how many people are unhappy just because society has imposed a standard on them: “In search of pleasure, you are obliged to exploit the act of procreation, everything else is taboo.” Sometimes it seems to me that my patients are an army of naked people, commanded by the main the sexologist of the country - General Lebed with his principle: "fell - wrung out."
You think you're the worst. If you only knew how many innocent
victims of this stupid "standard". The most common and devastating myth is impotence. Well, is this an obstacle in order to love and be loved?! Strictly speaking, what is sex - it's intimacy, the exchange of energy, the satisfaction of hunger. And a person closes in on himself, suffers one on one with his "terrible secret." In fact, the morally unhealthy are not impotent, not "gay", not "pink", not transsexuals like you. Sick are those who turn
with a loved one, as with a rubber doll - there would only be a hole in the right place ... "
"I FELL IN LOVE"
I did something banal - I left my hometown for Moscow. I went to the podium and achieved success (without hiding from employers that I am a man, this did not prevent me from being in the filing cabinet of one of the leading modeling agencies abroad).
Then a miracle happened - I fell in love. Of course, you are jarring - some pervert speaks of himself in the feminine gender. But I cannot say otherwise, because my chosen one is the most courageous man in the world. But one day my heart sank
in anticipation of disaster. My boxer hugged me, and then, when his hand touched my chest, he recoiled. "I'm sorry," he said later, "I just love you as I could love a woman." I disappeared in the morning, leaving a note: "If you love me, leave the key under the rug, I'll be back in ten days." The operation cost me 6,000 more, but I did it urgently. I woke up from anesthesia and stretched my hand to my chest. At first, I experienced nothing but pain.
Unfamiliar alien roundness lay on my chest. I went out into the street and caught the curious glance of a passerby. I realized that the sign at the door from which I came out was to blame. This man knows what they're doing here. His gaze slid down my chest and down. I felt naked! I wanted to run again, like then, 4 years ago, after the first performance on the podium. I could not help myself - my steps accelerated,
accelerated... And I ran!
How I Became a Woman
It all started when I met Ira at a party, it was 6 years ago. She herself offered to take her home, I agreed, so we started dating.
To be honest, I have always been a timid boy and never made decisions on my own. Therefore, Irina began to dominate in our relationship, and I simply accepted everything that she offered, it was always like that. She was the first to drag me into her bed and for the first time in my life I felt what a woman is.
She was a little taller than me, she has beautiful features, but not very big breasts, well, in general, I didn’t have to choose, so I’m very happy with what I have. After the first night, Ira offered to move me and live with her. I did not want to refuse because living alone is much worse, and my home was like a shack compared to her house.
I sold my apartment and moved to live with Irina. Since then, I have not worked. Ira said that she did not need the crumbs that they paid me and that it would be more useful if I stayed at home. And so it happened, I do housework, and Ira earns money.
Once we started talking about reversing roles, of course I understood that I should earn a living, and Irina should do housework, but I was also happy with the role of a housewife, so I did not deny it when Ira offered to try reversing roles and in bed.
- You still behave passively and the size of your dignity cannot satisfy me. So I bought this toy, - she took out a dildo from the box, I did not resist, she told me to lie on my back and spread my legs, and inserting a part of the dildo into her crotch and securing it with straps, she said: - Get ready at first it will hurt a little.
I felt the head of the dildo slowly begin to penetrate me, a sharp pain pierced me, I twitched trying to pull it out.
- I said lie still, now the pain will subside, try to relax, - I had no choice but to obey.
Gradually, the pain subsided, I just felt her penis, which rhythmically penetrated me. I looked at Irina and saw that she enjoys the process itself, she likes to dominate, she likes to have me. After 10 minutes of attacks on my ass, she commanded me to roll over on my stomach, now I did not see her face, but only felt the thrusts of her hips on my buttocks, but I liked this position more, so I touched my penis to the bed, and Irina's thrusts stimulated me .
A few moments later, Ira spilled a strong orgasm and fell on me, then she kissed me on the cheek and said that these were the most pleasant moments that I delivered to her. She turned me over on my back and saw my twitching dick, I was excited and expected from her that she would allow me to enter her, but this did not follow, but instead I heard that now she would rest and make another call and then I I can finish.
And so it happened, Ira told me to get on all fours, and she again pierced my ass with her dildo, now there was no pain, but there was such a pleasant feeling somewhere in the depths of the abdomen, and plus Ira grabbed my cock and with several pushes brought me to orgasm, it was the strongest orgasm I have ever experienced. I fell on my stomach and lay in complete bliss for several minutes.
- Well, dear, did you like it, - Ira asked, I replied that I had never experienced anything like it.
- I'm glad you liked it, now we'll make love to you the only way. But for this I would like to change your image a little. I don't like your body and facial hair, so tomorrow I'll take you to Tomka - she's a doctor, and she'll help me give your body a neater look.
I'm not used to arguing with Ira, and in my experience it didn't lead to anything, so I shook my head. The next day we went to Tamara, this is Irina's friend from the institute, she worked at the beauty institute.
- Come in, sit down, well, finally you brought your own. Hello, handsome, well, tell me, how far have you come?
And Irina told Tamara everything, I didn’t know where I could fail.
- Well, what do you say, dear, did you like it?
I didn't know what to say.
- Well, you just haven’t got the taste yet, well, for all your time. Irisha, so what did you decide what we would change?
- I would like to remove all the hair on his body and on his face.
- Well, it's not a problem a few sessions of photo-epilation and you can forget about all the vegetation, but is that all?
Irina looked at me with a predatory look, I began to worry.
“You told me you wanted total feminization.
Yes, but I haven't talked to him about it yet.
- So what? Let's all talk together. Sasha do you love Ira?
- Yes, but I don't understand what you want to talk about.
- Did you like the vulgar night?
- Yes.
- So you like it when Ira dominates in bed, plays the role of a man?
- Well...
- Without any yes or no, do you like to obey her?
- Yes.
- Do you like the way of life you live?
- Yes.
- Then I don't understand, Ira, what's the problem?
- Sasha, everything is very simple - I love you, I like to make love to you, but I prefer to see in you not the man I fuck, but I want, - Ira looked at me with a piercing look, - well, in general, I want, to make you look like a woman as much as possible.
I was dumbfounded and could not say anything right away.
- Come on, you will listen to Tom fully, then you will ask your questions.
- So for starters, this is hormone therapy, I will give you the names of drugs that will suppress the release of his hormones, and then you will start giving him drugs containing female hormones, so we will replace male hormones with female ones. Your skin, Sasha, will become softer and more tender, the deposition of fatty tissues will begin according to the female type, on the hips, the ass will become rounded, it will become softer, your chest will begin to grow and your voice will change a little. You are only 20 years old, so all these changes will be quick and painless for you. This is what we want to do in the near future. Then Ira wanted to enlarge your breasts, and of course clean up between your legs, although Irisha agreed that this is the final stage, it’s too early to talk about it. Well dear, what do you say?
I was silent and did not know what to answer, it seems that Irina decided everything for me a long time ago and just gradually led me to what was happening now.
- Don't be silent, say something.
I was worried and didn't know what to say.
- I don't want to do any operations.
- Yes, you're just afraid, just think your whole life will change, you will feel in a different capacity. Your beloved woman will love you, your beloved woman will take care of you. You will learn a lot of new things and discover the world of women's joys and pleasures. You will try two completely different lives in one life, you have already lived one, and it was not the best, you did not achieve anything, you did not turn out to be a real man, and you never will. You are used to the fact that decisions are made for you by the one who is stronger. The one who is responsible for you. And Irina made such a decision, and I think that you simply have no right to refuse her. You understand, we do not persuade you, we just explain to you what will happen to you in the near future. Now undress, I want to examine you and take the necessary tests.
I realized that it was useless to resist, I went to the couch and began to undress.
- So let's see what we have here, well, Irisha, I think that everything is very good, the muscles are poorly developed, the proportions of the body do not have a clear belonging to the male sex, so the figure will be female in a year. But I want to say that in the near future it is necessary to remove two ribs on each side of him, so the proportions between the chest, waist and hips will be super. Let me measure you, so height 170 cm, chest 85 cm, waist 70 cm, hips 83 cm, weight 61 kg. We will remove the hair today and repeat the procedure in two weeks. Ira, pick him up in 4 hours, but for now, here is a list of drugs, buy everything and today start giving him the way I prescribed.
Ira left after kissing me, and I was taken to the treatment room, where for 5 hours they removed all the vegetation on the body and face, then rubbed the whole body with some creams and Ira took me home.
On the way, Ira stopped by the store and said, now we will buy you something more comfortable and beautiful, and remember that you will no longer wear men's clothes, this is not for you. She took me to the departments with the words:
- Well, until I choose everything for you to your taste.
I just stood and watched as the saleswomen showed her various lingerie and clothes, and Ira chose and looked at me with a smile and satisfaction. With large bags and boxes, we went home. Upon arrival, Ira told me to undress and put my clothes in bags, and all my clothes went there.
Now you won't need it anymore. Now put on these panties, - she handed me lacy white women's panties.
I put them on, but what was between my legs created a tubercle and Ira said:
- You see such beautiful underwear, and this unnecessary piece spoils everything, well, nothing, I think it won't last long.
I didn’t say anything anymore, but simply put myself at her complete disposal and felt a little confused.
- Now put on a bra.
A very unusual sensation, but a pleasant, delicate fabric gently wrapped around my chest and gave it a feminine look.
- Nothing when you have a woman's breasts, everything will be in its place, but for now just get used to wearing women's underwear.
Then I put on stockings, it turns out to be very nice when the nylon fits around the legs, the high heels made it uncomfortable and awkward.
- Get used to nothing and learn to walk in heels, it is the hairpin that emphasizes the female figure.
When I put on the dress, I felt naked below, everything was blown through and I had to sit, as Ira taught, constantly moving my legs. Then the hairstyle, it didn’t suit Ira at all, so I realized that tomorrow I would not only get a women’s haircut, but also repaint my hair in a lighter color. Then Ira took to my face, it’s not very pleasant when they pluck my eyebrows, but otherwise nothing unpleasant, it’s just unusual to feel mascara on my eyelashes and lipstick on my lips, but when I looked in the mirror, I realized that everything had gone so far that my My wife won't back down now.
Tomorrow I was promised a new hairstyle and pierced ears, but in the meantime I spent several hours listening to how to sit, walk, how to behave, how to take care of my skin and hair, how to prepare myself for sex.
So, during the year, a lot of changes happened to me, firstly, my breasts became quite noticeable, my nipples became larger and they became darker, my hips became wider and my ass was rounder, my skin became very tender, thanks to hormones and creams it became lighter, I was forbidden to sunbathe, Ira wanted my skin to be milky white. Thanks to Tamar's efforts, my figure became feminine, the only thing that betrayed my gender was what hung between my legs.
Hormone therapy was doing its job, my penis had not stood for a long time, and no one needed it in sex, I only got pleasure from when Irina fucked me in the ass. Tamara kept telling Ira that it was high time for me to change my gender to female. But Ira did not want to deprive me of the last sign of belonging to the male sex.
- Ira, you understand, we have achieved our goal. He looks like a woman. He enjoys the fact that you fuck him in the ass. He sits at home and does all the work of a housewife, but everything happens in life and we must make sure that he could never return to his former state. You don't want to lose him, do you?
- Okay, how do you want to do it?
- Firstly, let's surgically enlarge his chest to at least a third size, after that it will be very difficult and expensive to return it to its previous state, and he has no money, but it is difficult to hide large and full breasts and this will make him constantly feel who is he. Yes, and agree that he just gets a good female breast now. Then I insist on your consent, if not on a sex change, then let's at least castrate him, this will give a greater effect of hormone therapy, he will begin to gain weight, but only by the female type, his hips and ass will become larger and more appetizing. If you want to leave him a member, only I will make sure that he remains with him, and from a typewriter you can make a semblance of labia.
- Can you make him a vagina?
- Of course.
- And it will be possible to have it there?
- I will try to make his female genital organ as realistic as possible, I will also bring the urinary canal there so that he just needs to sit down in order to pee.
- Well, Tomka, you turned me on, is it really possible to do all this?
Don't even hesitate, dear. Call him here, I will announce your decision to him.
When I entered the room, Toma beamed with pleasure, she had not seen me for about a month, and I thought that my appearance brought out that expression. I got used to the fact that I constantly wore lingerie and clothes, I did my own makeup, my hair grew back, I followed Irina's requirements and therefore wound them on big curlers. Just when they called me, I finished this procedure and appeared before them with curlers on my head, maybe this caused Tamara's reaction.
- Well, dear, how do you feel in a new capacity.
I chuckled and lowered my eyes. I could not say that I really liked my appearance, but the fact that I just looked forward to every night, that I just love when Irina penetrates me with her dildo... for this I was ready for anything to please Irina, to have me every night.
- You look very nice, dear, our efforts are not in vain. And as in intimate terms, how our ass changes its size. Ira what size are you fucking him?
- I recently switched to a new one, although it is still tight, but I think it will not last long, its hole is so pliable that 22x6 cm will soon have to be changed.
- And you, why are you silent? Tell me how you feel when a woman fucks you.
- I really like it, otherwise I would not do everything that Ira wants from me.
- Well, nice. I want to inform you that Ira has decided to make some more changes in your appearance. She is not very happy with how fast your breasts are growing, so she decided to insert silicone implants in you, so that soon you will have a normal female breast size 3-4.
- Can't you do without it?
- Well, Ira, he is already beginning to argue and hesitate. I said it should have been castrated a long time ago. Yes, dear, and do not make such a surprised look tomorrow, I myself will eliminate what prevents you from becoming obedient and timid. Dear, bring him tomorrow at 8 am, and in a week you will get your lover back, only he will no longer argue with you.